"My baby moves all the time, it is not nice to his brother or sister, he can not sleep, he has nightmares" ... or "the teacher said he disrupts the class, he has a stomach ache just before leaving for school, he never takes the floor, he types or get slapped by his comrades ",...
Sure, as parents, we are challenged, feel guilty, worried .... "Why is it so? What to do to change that? Are our behavior with him is good or bad?"
So many questions for which there is no answer.
What happens there in his childhood ? Do we love him for himself or what he does? The accept us with our differences? We get to be really available to him? Do we not give him too much for us to work feeling guilty of being absent? Perhaps we secretly want it to be better than us, they succeed where we failed.
What about our personal, social, professional? Are we happy or disappointed, rather, concerned for our future? Do we take care of our relationship? Separation, the birth of a baby brother or sister cause changes more or less experienced.
These are some factors in our environment that directly influence the mode of contact of the child in his family, at school, with friends.
Wishing you a HAPPY NEW YEAR, remember that just one piece of the puzzle together and exchange is transformed!
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